In today’s post, I wish to talk about the importance of messaging in branding and why the words we use matter. Let’s start by defining what embodied brand messaging is. To me, it’s the core message that represents your values, communicated in a way that deeply resonates with your audience and with your heart. And it resonates because you feel it’s right with your whole body and soul. When your message is true to who you are, it attracts the right people. Every word you use carries energy; words are not just tools, they are vessels for your message, filled with meaning and emotion.
Words come to life because we connect with them intellectually and emotionally. We create associations and give words their emotional meaning. When we experience joy, anger, or sadness, we feel it physically, they are not just words. Emotions are embodied—happiness spreads throughout our body, while anger sits in our hands, head, and chest. I’ll link to an image in the that visually depicts how emotions light up different parts of the body, serving as a powerful reminder of how connected our words and feelings are.
So why is this important for branding and messaging? Because what we create, whether through images, sounds, or words, is how we connect with others. In today’s world, we are bombarded by so many voices, stories, and opinions. Before starting my business, I was overwhelmed by the flood of advice and opinions. As an introvert and a sensitive person who likes preparing a lot before taking action, I went into research mode, trying to figure out how to run a business that aligned with who I am without burning out. And I know, that for people like me, the only way to grow a business is through being true to their body and soul.
I turned to Instagram for guidance, but I found myself overwhelmed by endless solutions and products. Instead of gaining clarity, I often felt bombarded. Messaging in marketing is often carefully engineered to trigger primal responses in our brains, and while this can be effective, it can also feel manipulative at times. In the past, I’ve purchased from creators I didn’t feel connected to, because of clever marketing or out of necessity. But what I strive to create in this space is a business built on connection and long-term trust, not quick-fix social media tactics.
After using Instagram for a long time, I decided to uninstall it. It was mentally draining to use it every day. Once I stepped away, my mind cleared, and I finally discovered the words I wanted to use to speak to my audience. For example, you won’t find the word “conversion” on my website. It feels too impersonal and mechanical, like a cold marketing metric. Instead, I choose words that resonate with who I am and the values I want to bring into my business. I chose to install Instagram only on my iPad and upload my work there from time to time while sticking to my boundaries.
Your messaging should be an extension of your values and the products or services you offer. There’s a simple formula that can help you craft your message: I create/sell [your product or service] for [your ideal audience/customers] who need [the need or problem you’re solving]. I’ll include this formula in the show notes as well.
When your core message feels aligned with your values, you’ll feel a sense of integrity and resonance. This alignment makes your message magnetic—it’s true to you, and it will naturally attract others who need what you’re offering. They’ll sense that your message is genuine, and you’ll be able to help them reach their goals. There’s no need to feel ashamed about selling something if it’s truly valuable and helpful.
To check if your messaging is embodied and aligned, try this simple exercise: read your core message out loud and notice what you feel. Does it resonate? Do you feel any discomfort or unease? If something feels off, ask yourself if the message is true to your heart right now and whether it will remain true in the future. Messaging can evolve as your values and business grow.
Beyond the core message, the specific words you use are also crucial. In my communication, I focus on emotionally resonant words like “gentle,” “sensitive,” “feminine,” and “introvert.” These words reflect my values and the clients I aim to serve—sensitive, creative, introverted women who want to build businesses that align with their values. I design for women who value health, nature, beauty, and a more relaxed, natural way of living. I am, of course using more industry terms like website design, Showit website, or brand design, but I don’t make them a focal point of my every post.
When you have your own business, it’s important to remember that you don’t have to feel trapped by it. Many women, including myself, started their businesses after working for someone else. I worked as a designer for a large company before launching my own business. But the key to avoiding burnout is aligning your values, your offer, and your audience. When these elements are in sync, your messaging will flow naturally and help you build a sustainable, fulfilling business. And even if there will be tough moments when you’ll work more, you’ll feel it’s worth it.
Silence has played a significant role in my ability to align my messaging. I’ve found that the best ideas come to me in moments of quiet—whether I’m out in nature, just waking up, in the shower or simply resting. Recently, I read Stillness Speaks by Eckhart Tolle, which reminded me of the power of silence. There’s no need to be constantly available or online, listening to countless voices. Instead, stepping away from the noise allows us to reconnect with ourselves and our true intentions. Stepping away from the constant pressure to create on social media has allowed me to connect with my audience more intentionally and creatively. It’s in these moments of stillness that the words I want to share come to the surface.
When you’re building your business, it’s vital to stay true to yourself. You don’t need to force yourself into rigid formulas or conversion tactics. You can know these strategies, but it’s more important to communicate from a place of authenticity and integrity. Your message will resonate more deeply when it comes from your heart, rather than from a desire to fit into a certain mold.
If this message resonates with you, I invite you to check out my website, visit my Pinterest, or reach out to me. Whether you’re ready to hire me for web or brand design, or simply want to have a conversation, we can set up a consultation. I’m here to help you create something meaningful, intentional, and aligned with your values.